There usually is a competition on how busy one is. Who has the busiest schedule or the saddest story? Life isn't a competition. Do what you can and do it right.
Maybe in the spring semester i should wear depends since I'm too busy to go to the restroom. I have adopted a second cat in the apt. Now i can tell people how busy I am being a single father with 2 cats. No support from the government. Then they don't get to see me since i am always busy.
Take a deep breath and relax. Enjoy life. You won't be miserable if you relax and not enjoy what life has to offer. Like I said it is not a competition on who is busier. In the end we all get the same result....death. So calm down....